So, that whole New Years Resolution to blog more often? Yeah, not really succeeding at that.
But since I'm going to try and get that one going again - let's take a look at my progress on my other resolutions!! (If you forgot what they were, check here)
1. Be Less Selfish. This one's been hard. But I've learned that it's about balancing my needs and wants with the needs and wants of others. Sometimes, it's okay to say "Hey, I really need to focus on me right now" and it's okay to ask for something. But if you only ask others and never help them in return - that's where it can get rough.
My main goal in this one was to focus less on me when other people are talking about their own problems. (examples are in the original post!) I think I've improved. Even if I am more tired/hungry/hurt/whatever, the person I'm talking to isn't bringing it up because they want me to chime in.. they're bringing it up because they need to talk about it.
2. Continue to See The Bigger Picture. Well, this one is on year two.. and it's still a struggle. This tends to be problem when my controlling side comes out - if people don't do what I want them to do (regardless of if I tell them that's what I want) I get pout-y. But in reality, if things don't go perfectly the way I want, the world will not crash and burn. Keep working on this one, Ashlyn.
3. Be Happy. I'd say I've been pretty happy in 2014. I have been working on bettering myself and becoming healthier, and that's made me more confident and happier with myself. Sometimes, like everyone, I just get a little down - but everyone is allowed to have those days!
4. Be Heard. Well, I can't say I've tried very hard with this one. I'm still shy, I'm still quiet, and people still talk over me and ignore me. I definitely want to work on this one some more as the year progresses.
5. Blog More! Like I said, this one hasn't gone as smoothly as planned - but here's to the next 5 months and having them go better!!
We're 7 months into the year. But don't worry if you haven't lost that weight or conquered your fears - there's still time to tackle your New Years Resolutions! Pull out your list, evaluate how well you've been doing (be honest!), and make plans to continue to improve yourself!! Even if you can't complete each goal, you can work towards them! January 1st isn't the only day you can start new things!!
Forgot what your resolutions were? Think of new ones! They can be your August 1st resolutions!
For me, the most important aspect of sticking to my resolutions is remembering what they are, why I want to change, and what the outcome will be if I do!!
